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Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2023 5:44 pm
by Mumbleypeg
Bless you for caring for your mom. Itβs difficult when our caregiver roles reverse, but when things were frustrating it always helped me to remember all that my parents did for me. Treasure the time you have with her.
Ken
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2023 1:16 am
by orvet
Rod,
I have you in my prayers and I pray that God would give you the strength and encouragement you need in this trying time. May he give you and your household peace.
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2023 1:24 am
by dlr110
Rod, many, many prayers for you and your mother.

Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 12:04 pm
by Nev52
Hi everybody,
Just wanted to give you all an update on my mom. I think all the prayers are working. She has been living with us for over 2 years now. Here dementia has gotten somewhat worse but not as much decline as the doctors thought it would be by now. She turned 96 in February and physically she is doing well. We do have a caregiver come in and help her with different things a couple times a week my mom seems to like the interaction with the caregiver. Thank God. At first, she was very agitated now she looks forward to her coming in to help out. My wife and I are trying our best to keep my mom with us and not in a nursing home. I have to say the doctor is amazed that at 96 my mom only takes blood pressure medication and can still getting around so well. I still have breakfast every morning with her, and she eats dinner with us every night. She is still living in the apartment in the barn and loves the independency of somewhat living by herself. Sorry about the long story but it feels good to talk about it sometimes. I have to say my wife is a saint through all this and it makes caregiving somewhat easier. I have enclosed a picture of my mom from her birthday.
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers.
Rod [Nev 52]
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 12:11 pm
by Quick Steel
It is so good to hear how well your mom is doing. I think that staying with you as long as possible helps her greatly.
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 12:42 pm
by ThatWeirdKnifeGuy
You are an absolute champion.
And what a sweet heart she is. She looks so happy. Thanks for sharing your stories with us, you're both inspiring.
Makes me wish I was closer with my mother
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 1:07 pm
by wlf
Wow, what a great thread.


Tell your Mom I said hello and happy belated birthday.
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 1:31 pm
by doglegg
Quick Steel wrote: βThu Mar 13, 2025 12:11 pm
It is so good to hear how well your mom is doing. I think that staying with you as long as possible helps her greatly.
Agree
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 1:38 pm
by bestgear
Great thread, thank you for sharing your journey with your mom. My wife and I took in my FIL when he was 81. It was great having teenage boys grow up with their grandfather in-house. He turned into my best buddy and when we lost him 9 years later it probably hit me the hardest. Those were some of the best memories of my life and even though he was called home in 2018, not a day goes by that Iβm not reminded of him. RIP Dan.
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2025 1:01 am
by Reverand
Thank you for sharing this! So many people are going through tough times, and we all need a little inspiration. Thank you for providing some today!
Re: Care giver for my Mom
Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2025 1:52 am
by treefarmer
Great news!
Glad it's working out for y'all.
Treefarmer